No Hot Women of Color?

Sad that pretty much every top 10 hottest / sexiest women list I see has little to zero women of color on them. Maybe a few Latinas, who are mainly from South America, but very few Asian, Black, & extremely few Arab ladies. Very sad. There are beautiful women of all colors out there. Shame the people who make these lists can’t see that. Just my opinion.

For the Ladies - Cock

I've decided to start giving the ladies two For the Ladies posts per week. Therefore ladies (and the men who get turned on by other men), I bring you muscular men. Oh, with their cocks hanging out. For the record, I'm jealous of all of their bodies. Must carve out regular time and get hardcore back into working out. Enjoy.

Sex Song Friday - Tara Kemp

Cover of Tara Kemp     We're going back to the 80s for this one. Tara Kemp had two big hits back when her debut album came out: this one and Piece of my Heart. Then, she faded into the woodwork of the pop culture industry. I read somewhere that someone tracked her down recently but that she was just happy living her life and had no plans to come back, even for one of those reality shows that celebrities like to get on. It's too bad. She was really good.

New Years Resolution / Revolution

Image by CosmicDust via Flickr     It's no secret that I've been busy with life & a relatively new (4 months is still sort of new, right?) girlfriend. This has meant that this blog has suffered greatly. For that, I'm sorry. However, that doesn't mean that this blog is ending. In fact, after toying around with some ideas, I've figured out a way to keep the blog going with content pretty much every day that won't take up too much of my time.

     This doesn't mean that I'll be telling my sexcapades every day. In fact, it'll be maybe 2 days a week maximum. There will be other contect that, judging from the comments that I've gotten in the past, proved to be rather popular. I think you'll enjoy it. Happy New Year!!!!

Celebrity Crush

Cover of Janet Jackson     I just realized that I don't have any celebrity crushes right now. I'm not sure why that is. My first celebrity crush was a young Janet Jackson. The first time I saw her on Good Times, I fell in love. The fact that she was a Jackson just made it even better.
     Over the years, there've been the usual crushes with one named women: Angelina, Halle, Madonna. However, there's no celebrity at this moment who I go crazy for. Kim Kardashian? Great body but is really boring in bed (no, I've never slept with her but her sex tape was boring as hell). Paris Hilton? Same as Kim Kardashian. Megan Fox? Seems like a great woman but honestly, she doesn't do a thing for me. The quality just doesn't seem to be there these days. Maybe it's just me.

Please Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself

I'm a well spoken, college educated, mid - 40s clean cut black male. I'm 6' tall & around 170 - 200 lbs, depending. Lately, I've been working out like a fiend. I have a good job. I've never been married although I've come dangerously close. The last girlfriend burned me so badly that I've been gunshy with affairs of the heart. I figure I'm a bachelor for life.

Having said all that, I love sex. When it comes to sex, I'm pretty much uninhibited. In fact, I'd probably say I'm a dog. I never cheat on anyone who I'm seriously dating but if I'm single, I'm doing just about any woman who wants it. I don't care if they have boyfrineds or not. I admit I enjoy the fact that I'm making some other guy's woman cum. I realize I'm probably going to hell for that but I figure if they're willing to cheat on their men & I'm single, why not? You only go around once. Never live your life wondering what if.

I like all colors of women. I've had black women, white women, latino women, asian, & even persian. What can I say? I love variety. I've had women old enough to be my mother & young enough to be my daughter. I love womens bodies. I could never be gay because I think the male body is ugly. Am I some chocolate stud banging 1000 women? No. However, when an opportunity asises, I make the most of it.

I love pleasing women in bed. There isn't a single thing that I won't do in order to please my women sexually. Women wonder why I can last so long in bed. My answer is simple. I can't cum until I know my woman has been pleased. It's just something that I've trained myself for.


My favorite noise in the whole world is hearing a woman orgasming. I love the feel when they do. I love feeling their muscles tighten. I love the look on their faces as they gasp as I enter them. I love skin on skin. I love the soft moans getting louder & louder. I live for it. Everything I do is for the passion. I live for the pleasure of pleasing. 
 
 

 
I love my women fast, I admit. I just love women who know what they want & aren't afraid to go after it. No games, no gimmicks. I've got pretty good stamina. I love doing all nighters. I've never been one for quickies. I can go for about 12 hours with the right woman. Oh & these two photos? They're of me.

Much Delayed Valentine's Day post - Part 2

...Fiona came over to me. I was still seated in the chair, completely dressed in my suit & my hands were still handcuffed. With a wicked grin, Fiona undid my belt & yanked down my pants. My cock sprang out of my pants. "Mmmmm" Fiona said.  "I need this in my mouth". Fiona licked her lips, spat on my cock, & started stroking it hard & fast. Then, cradling my balls, she started licking & sucking it. As she deep throated me, her throat muscles massaged my shaft, taking all 8 inches with ease. I started moaning & leaned my head back, completely powerless to do anything but enjoy her skills.
     Blasian watched this for a while. Then, she decided that she wanted to join in the fun. She came over & undid my handcuffs. Then, Blasian positioned one leg onto the back of the chair, put her pussy onto my face, grabbed my head, & forced it into her waiting pussy. She was still wet from the pounding Fiona gave her & her juices were still flowing. While Blasian started grinding her pussy into my face, my hands started getting occupied. My life hand reached up & cradled Blasian's ass, slowly splitting the crack of her ass apart so that I could work a finger into her ass.
     While my left hand was busy pleasing Blasian's ass, my right hand reached down & grabbed Fiona's hair. I alternated between caressing her hair & forcing her head further down onto my shaft. I needed to cum but I wanted to get Blasian off first. I concentrated on Blasian's pussy, working my tongue between her clit, her lips, & going inside of her. Blasian grinded even harder, moaning louder as I went. I knew she was close so I put extra effort into it until she came all over my face.
     While Blasian was coming down off another orgasm, I went back to grabbing Fiona's head. I pumped her head up & down my sheft, wanting her to take my cum in her mouth. Finally, I could feel my lava rise from my volcano. Jerking my hips up & down, I held Fiona's head down onto my cock as I shot a huge load into Fiona's mouth. Good girl that Fiona is, she took it all like a vacuum cleaner & slurped my cum all up. Fiona & Blasian weren't done with me, though....

Perceptions

Image by Dustin Diaz via Flickr

     A comment from CeCe Savage (whose blogs are amazing, by the way) to my post about Barry White's Never Gonna Give You Up (When I saw that you were doing a Barry White song, I found myself surprised that this is the one you picked. But I do love this song!) got me thinking about how people get perceived sometimes.
     I love women; well, most things anyway. I love their curves. I love the way they smell, laugh, & look. Of all the women I've slept with, there's only one who I'm only no longer friends with. In fact, most of my friends are women. I just enjoy their company more.
     Having said all that, I don't go around having sex with every one of them. I turn down women & have been turned down more times than not. I was in love with one woman for over a decade & was completely monogamous. I'm just making up for lost time these days.
     Plus, I love a good love song. Sex should be about making a connection; at the very least a lustful one. A great long song goes a long way in making that happen.
     I'm more than a one trick pony. I have an iq of 150, which just means that I know a lot about nothing of importance. I blog about politics, science, entertainment, & other assorted things. I'm just basically a big geek with a cool job. Trust me when I say the job helps with the women more than my actual personality but oh, the pleasure I give. You have no idea. I've got so many layers to me that peeling them back. If you take the time, you might just enjoy yourself.
P.S. The Barry song people probably figured I'd put up there is coming eventually.

Oral Sex

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What is it about giving pleasure to another? When I go down on a woman, I enjoy knowing that I'm getting her off. I enjoy playing her body, seeing what works & what doesn't, & adjusting to her movements.




When I'm getting a blowjob, however, I enjoy the power that I have over my woman. I enjoy the fact that she's pleasing me. I grab her hair in a dominating fashion, sometimes fucking her mouth just to show my dominance. Power is so intoxicating sometimes.



I assume my women feel the same way when I'm going down on them & they grab my head & force me into their pussies, grinding hard against my lips & my tongue. Plus, when they're going down on me, I assume they enjoy the fact that their mouths are getting me off.



So, the question is this: when giving oral sex, do you enjoy the giving or the recieving more & who's more powerful: the giver or the reciever?

College Town Mall: Another Man's Girl Part 2

     About a week after my sexual encounter with Dotty, I'm taking care of paperwork in the backroom of my store. The store had just closed for the evening & the other employees had gone. Since the mall at that time closed on Sundays at 5PM, I liked staying a couple of hours so that I could do that week's paperwork & still be home in plenty of time to do whatever. The store was situated so that my back door lead right to the outside & to the parking lot.
     Suddenly, I heard a knock on the door. Nobody ever knocks on that door. "Who is it?" I said. "It's Dotty. Can I come in?" she said. I opened the door & let her in. "What's going on?" I asked, thinking about her note that said that we couldn't be in the same area together. Yet, here she was knocking on my door.
     "I couldn't stay away. I mean, the way you made me feel..." she said. As she spoke, she moved towards me, leaned in & started caressing my chest. "Really? I said, beginning to rub against her. "How did I make you feel?". "You made me feel so naughty & so good. I couldn't stop thinking of how good you fucked me. Nobody's ever fucked me like that before."
     I didn't waste any time. Paperwork could wait. I loved fucking Dotty. She was my first redhead & lived up to everything I heard about how great redheads were in bed. I wasn't about to pass up a second opportunity. I leaned down, held her, & kissed her. I grabbed her shirt & drew it over her head. Passionately, the rest of our clothes came off.
     I lifted Dotty up by her ass & threw her against the back door. I thrusted my cock into her already wet pussy, wrapped her legs around my waist, & pumped her like a jackhammer. She felt so good around my cock, like a well fitted glove. She clawed at my back & started moving her hips wildly in time with mine; fucking me with a thirst that needed quenching. After a little while, she dug her nails into my back & held me close, as her orgasm washed over her for the first time.
     By that point in the evening, we had the entire mall to ourselves. I knew from talking to the mall guards regularly that they always left early on Sundays. Also, since nobody was open late Sunday nights, there were no video cameras on inside during the evenings. They only covered the parking lot. That gave me ideas; too many ideas. They say luck is preparation meeting opportunity. I always wanted to fuck in certain places in the mall. Luck was about to play it's part.
     First, I grabbed Dotty & put her on my store countertop, climbed on top of her, & fucked her hard missionary style, until she came again. Then, I opened the storefront gate & we walked a few storefronts down to the footcourt area. It had a water fountain area with benches that I always wanted to do a woman on top of.
     I put Dotty on all fours & leaned her over the bench. Getting behind her, I spread her ass cheeks & worked my cock into her asshole. Her body seized up & she let out a loud scream, then slowly backed her hips towards me. I grabbed her hair, threw her head back, & started pounding her. Thrust after thrust, right there in the middle of the mall. It was amazing. My body never felt so alive. I kept slamming her until she came. Then, I came inside her ass, thrusting each time, pumping more cum inside of her.
     We fucked in a few more places in the mall. We decided to meet every Sunday at that time & continue the affair. I fucked her for about a year after that. No strings were ever attached. It was just sex but we had the wildest, most inventive sex imaginable. She was the woman who brought out the kink & the adventure in me.

Formspring.me - So when you approach a girl in the club(possibly one you wanna smash), do you have a certain strategy you go by?

The only strategy I have is to be myself. Normally, I don't approach women in clubs. I usually know the person that they're with & I get to know them that way.
When I was younger, I tried every pick up line & every strategy in the book. They never worked. Quality women see through that shit all the time. In fact, if I could go back in time & meet my younger self, I'd smack him silly. Then, I'd tell him what numbers to play in every big lottery jackpot.
Playing games is never a good thing so I don't play them. That goes for women as well as men. In fact, everything I'm writing here goes for both genders. Being yourself works, unless you're an idiot & you know it. If that's the case, lie your ass off.
If the woman doesn't like you, move on. There are plenty of other women out there if you have the patience. Never look or act desperate. You do stupid things when you are.
If a woman's just cock teasing you to get drinks or something materialistic out of you, move on immediately before you go broke. That's someone who's into manipulating & is completely not worth the time. Besides, they think you're stupid & have zero respect for you so why bother? The good ones don't need to manipulate.
I always like women who know what they want & don't have to play games. Women know if they're going to sleep with you or not. Game playing, by either a man or a woman, should not enter into the equation. If it does, move on.

Ask me anything

NYC: the VIP Room - Porn Star Tales Part 1 Groupies

     Party buddies. Everybody has them. People who you wouldn't call friends but you have a good time with them when you're at the clubs. One of mine is a semi famous porn star (no, I haven't fucked her, for reasons that I'll explain about in a later blog). We have mutual friends & see each other every now & then.
     One night, not too long ago, we were in the vip section of a New York club with a lot of celebrities &, of course, groupies. We obseved this one groupie who purposely walked by a famous married athlete's table at least 7 times before the athlete finally noticed her & called her over to his table. After about a half hour, we noticed that she disappeared. After looking a little closer, we finally noticed the groupie was under the table giving the athlete a blowjob.
     It was at this point that my porn star drinking buddy & I got into a few deep conversations about groupies, the entertainment industry, & the porn star industry. A lot of it I already knew from being in the trenches of the entertainment industry & being privy to a lot of very bad behavior. Some things, though, I had not heard of before. I'll break down our conversation into 3 blogs.
     Since what started this whole conversation was groupie behavior, I'll start there. Groupies can basically be broken down into 4 categories, according to Porn, as I'll call her from now on. The first type are the girls who like to fuck for ego sake. They love sex & get off on the fact that they're fucking someone either rich or famous. They like the perks that come along with it but mainly, it's just because they like fucking famous people so that they can brag about it. You usually find those women on Twitter, talking about popping bottles in clubs & hanging out with this celeb & that athlete. It helps their self worth, I suppose.
     The second type are the girls who fuck these guys for the money. This group has 2 subtypes. The first subtype are the girls who fuck for material things. When they fuck, they expect to get paid, either with money (which would technically make them call girls or hookers, depending on your point of view) or with gifts, like expensive clothes, breast implants & injections, trips, whatever. I know of a groupie who got flown out with another groupie to an exotic island to visit a famous rapper who was on tour, just so he could have a 3some with them.
     The second & more dangerous subtype are the groupies who look at these guys as welfare checks. They want to get pregnant by these guys so that the famous guy will pay child support. They then might use that money to help take care of the kid. Most times, though, they use it to buy expensive things or to hunt for another famous guy.
     The next type of groupie is the type who fucks famous guys for career advancement. These are usually the models, singers,  actresses, & wannabes who think that being seen with a famous guy will help their careers. It usually works. A lot of the time, guys will take advantage of this; hence, the casting couch mentality. I know of a guy who owns one of those model magazines who's basic way of working is this. He fucks the models in his magazine a few times. If the girl's good in bed, that girl gets the magazine cover. If they suck in bed or decide not to put out to this guy, they get bounced & in some cases, blacklisted. I'm sure there will eventually be a lawsuit one day. For now, that's his game & the ladies have to play it.
     The last type of groupie is the type who looks at these guys as life long meal tickets. They want to bed these guys, in hope that these guys will fall in love with them & marry them; thus, insuring that they'll be taken care of for the rest of their lives.
     Now, I'm not saying that all women who sleep with these guys are like this. I'm not even saying that it's only women. Lord knows I've seen a lot of men who do this with both male & female celebs. Plus, when you think about it, a lot of the blame has to be given to the celeb. They know that there are people out there doing this to them, yet they choose to ignore that fact & have their fun. Whatever floats their boats, I suppose.
     I just thought it was funny that Porn broke it down so easily. She oughta know. She's a self confessed one of these types of women. I won't tell which one she said she was. You can't hate the player. Hell, sometimes, you can't even hate the game.
  

Vegas Baby Part 3

Image by Susanica via Flickr

     Eve was standing by the door. In concentrating on making Lena cum, I failed to notice that Eve had woken up & had watched us. My mind was quickly put at ease by Lena. "Don't just stand there" Lena said to Eve. "Get your ass in here." With that, Lena started grinding my cock again.
     Eve got behind Lena & started caressing her back. Eve then grabbed Lena's hair, yanked her head back, & put her hand on Lena's throat, putting pressure on it. Eve then started screaming to Lena "yeah, that's it. Fuck him hard. You wanted it so bad. Fuck him harder".
     The more Eve yelled, the harder Lena fucked. She was really going at it hard & fast, nearing breaking my cock off. Her hips thrusted forcefully into me, building her orgasm slowly. Eve reached around & started rubbing Lena's clit. That pretty much did it. Lena unleashed a torrent of an orgasm, bucking wildly & scream, with Eve screaming encouragement.
     When she was done, it was Eve's turn. I got out of the hot tub, onto the deck of the balcony, & lay down on my back. Eve mounted my cock & started riding. Lena watched for a few minutes while Eve's blonde frame rose up & down slowly on my hips. Then, Lena climbed on top of my face. With her back towards me, she lowered her pussy onto my waiting & grateful mouth. My tongue started to go to work, licking her clit & pussy.
     From my vantage point, I could hear Lena kissing Eve while both of them were riding me. Suddenly, Eve tightened her pussy muscles onto my cock as she came. Lena & I weren't too far behind her. We continued this menage for the next few hours. Then, they ladies were on their way.
     When I woke up, Matt was already out & about. "What happened to the ladies?" he said. "Oh, they left in the morning. We're going to catch up with them tonight again, provided you can keep up this time." "Good" he said. "She told me I was great last night". "If you only knew, Matt" I thought. "If you only knew".