What's Good For the Goose

     I was talking with a female friend of mine who has a Tumblr page. On it, she talks about having friends with benefits, being bisexual, & having booty calls. The other day, she received an email saying that she was going to hell because of her behavior & that the person hoped that she'd die.
     Now, wishing someone dead just because they like to have sex is beyond disrespectfull. In fact, it's really rather disgusting. It brings up the question, though, as to when society will get over the fact that women love to have sex with different people.
     If a guy has sex with lots of women, then he's a real man (if he has sex with another man, then society frowns on it but that's another story). However, if a woman goes out & has sex with lots of different men or women, then she's considered a slut. People need to get over themselves and get beyond these stereotypes. If women want to have their fun, then let them. It's nobody's business what they do. After all, what's good for the goose.....

Story - Self Analysis

     Someone said the other day that I was a beast. They meant it in a nice way. I don't think I'm a beast, though. I just know what I want and I act on it. Therefore, if I find you attractive, I'm not going to be shy about it. If it's mutual, then great. If it's not, then I move on. I'm not into playing games or having women play hard to get. How can someone get into a relationship with someone who played with their emotions by playing hard to get, I'll never understand. I don't find it sexy. I find it manipulative, which a big time red flag to me that says that you're not trustworthy.
     Having said all that, I've been doing a little self analysis and I think I've figured out a few things. I love women's bodies. The way they smell and feel. I worship them, study them like flesh covered works of art. It's probably why I've managed to stay friendly with most of the women I've fooled around with.
     However, sex to me, is a sport. It's a contest for me to see what I can do with you and to you. It satisfies my ego to make you cum and to see how many times I can do it. When I have sex, it doesn't tend to be soft and loving. It's erotic, exhausting, passionate, and hard. It's strictly a carnal pleasure. It probably is for a lot of guys.

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BILF Explained

     Just to explain my BILF list before someone takes offense to being on my list of BILFS. The ladies on my BILF list are so erotic that I'm jealous of the people who they are with. I'm envious of their partners, getting to touch those amazing specimens of womanhood. Each one is beautiful in their own way to me. The fact that they convey their eroticness in their blogs so well, I naturally just want to experience being in their presence for myself. That's the definition of a great sex blog, I think. After you're done reading their blog, do you want to either be that person or be with that person? If the answer is yes, then it's a great sex blog. Just saying.

Sex Blog of the Week Submissions

     As I look through my own blog list, I realize that there are only a few more blogs that I follow with authors who write regularly. Therefore, I need some new blogs to follow. Does anybody have blogs or know of blogs that are worthy of being a sex blog of the week post?
     Here's my idea of being worthy:
1. They have to post regularly. Be regularly, I don't mean every day. We all have busy lives & a lot of us don't get to look at blogs; let alone, post one. Hell, if I didn't go to my current blog format, I'd probably only post maybe once a month or so. Once a week or so is good, so long as it's not one post every other month telling you that they haven't posted in a while but will.
2. They have to turn me on. I'm not a fan of blogs that just want to bitch & moan about their lives. I like sex talk, not relationship talk or all men are evil talk. Granted, there are a few that I've suggested that talk a lot about their relationships but those people balance all that out with passion & sex. Therefore, it's workable, in my opinion.
     With all that being said, feel free to make your suggestions, along with the links. Tell me why you personally like these blogs. No, your friend writes it is not a valid reason.

Sex Blog of the Week - Drenched & Delicious

I love her posts. You can tell that she's very sensual with her lovemaking. You can also tell that she loves her man. Her posts on February 11 & 14 tore at my heart. He's one very lucky man to have a woman of this magnitude.
Her quote on her blog pretty much says it all: "My narrative is thus accompanied by those voices that have something sacred about them, that emerge from the mind I love. The mind I love has wild places, tangled orchards, overgrown forests, pools of unfathomed depth, and paths lined by natural colors." author unknown



http://thedrenchedone.blogspot.com/

Gifs of the week 2/20/11

Ladies (and the men who enjoy these things), the first thing you should know about giving a good blowjob is that you have to like giving them. If you're doing it solely out of obligation (just like sex in general), then you're going to be really bad at it. Take this lady, for instance. The double suck with the pop and tongue lick at the end? That's a woman who enjoys what she's doing. On a personal note, wet and sloppy is always the way I like getting it.

Another thing. Tease with the tongue. A lady who does that with a wicked smile is a sexy lady indeed. Click the photo to see what I mean.

Sex Blog of the Week - Black, Kinky, & Proud

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Pornstar From Yesteryear - Heather Hunter

Image via WikipediaHere's pornstar Heather Hunter. She was one of my first porn loves.

Sexy Gif of the week - 1/30/11

I love rubbing my cock on a woman's pussy. I love teasing her with it; making her want it inside her even more. I love making her beg for it; making her pussy wetter & wetter until it's soaked with juices. As usual, click the photo to get the movement.

Sex Blog of the Week - Exploits of Lexi

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Sex Blog of the Week - Frenchy's Secret Garden

     This blog is sexy. The woman is sexy. The blog has a great look. Here's her description of her blog.

I am a solitary, a dreamer and an explorer of new worlds. Also a French wife and mother, getting a divorce, having a vivid imagination and longing to rediscover what good sex is all about. This exercice will also allow me to improve my English, so bear with me, please. I am open to positive remarks.

http://frenchyssecretgarden.blogspot.com/?zx=ee8333ac78de232b

Sex Blog of the Week - Diary of an Online Stripper

     I absolutely LOVE this blog. A day doesn't go by where I don't go check for a new post. With my busy schedule, that means it must be good. It's written by an amazing woman named Cande_Gina, who's evolved over the years. The name of the blog is misleading, since it's not about a woman who charges money to watch her strip. This lady has depth. You should read it from the beginning in order to see her journey. You'll love peeling back the layers.
     This is her description of her blog: I'm an ordinary girl with an extraordinary appetite for sex of any kind but I have a weak spot for cyber. I love to strip on cam for guys, I can't get enough. Since I have a long term boyfriend, I have one important secret online lover, and a few periphery ones.

http://secretdiaryofanonlinestripper.blogspot.com/?zx=ac2048b6616e48e1

More Sexual Truths repost

1. I love phone sex.


2. I love webcam sex.

3. I love cyber sex.

4. I'm not as cool as you think I am. I'm really quite the nerd. Well, half nerd & half workout geek.

5. I've never had a threesome with myself, a guy, & a girl. It's always been myself & two other girls.

6. Having said that, I love threesomes.

7. I've had a foursome with three girls...actually, that was a few times.

8. Some of the places I've had sex are:

- the office

- a car; front & back seat, & hood.

- a park

- in a pool

- in a hot tub

- on a boat

- on the subway

- in a cab

- a truck

- a boat

- in a closet at a party

- in the next room with her boyfriend passed out

- in the college dorm shower

- at a gym

- on the 50 yard line on a football field

- on a private jet

- on top of the laundry dryer

9. I've been tied up & I do the tying up.

10. I've been spanked & have done the spanking.

11. I enjoy watching people having sex & having people watch me have sex.

12. I love cumming in a woman's mouth.

13. Business suits with short to medium length skirts on a woman are a complete turn on for me.

14. Women in black pumps drive me wild.

15. I look 15 - 20 years younger than I really am. I was carded right up until I was 40. That's not such a bad thing now but when I was younger, I'd get angry over it.

My 16 Sexual Truths repost

1. I love amateur porn but don't really like regular porn. Regular porn is just full of too many people faking the passion.


2. I love loud, passionate, peel the paint off the walls sex.

3. I fuck erotically. Hense, all of the adventures that you read.

4. I love kinky sex. I'll share those stories soon.

5. All of my stories are real. No sense in writing down lies for you to get off on.

6. I masterbate at least twice a day every day: once when I wake up & once before I go to bed.

7. I love everything about a woman's body.

8. I have lots of stamina. I like my sexual sessions to go all night into the next afternoon if possible.

9. Most of your blogs get me off.

10. I love using toys on a woman.

11. I like sexy but not slutty. I love Victorias Secret but not Fredricks of Hollywood.

12. You are who you fuck so make sure you only fuck people you're proud to be seen with.

13. It turns me on knowing that you're cumming to my words.

14. I love my sexual demons. I embrace them passionately.

15. I don't discriminate with the women I sleep with. Color doesn't matter to me. I love variety.

16. Having said that, I do tend to prefer fit women. Athletes, personal trainers, that sort. However, I'll do any sexy woman.

I Want repost

Tonight, I want to have rough sex.
I want raw, animalistic, passionate sex.
I want to rip clothes off.
I to jack her up against a wall & fuck the shit out of her.
I want to throw her on the bed & jump on top of her.
I want to pound her pussy so hard she screams.
I want to eat her pussy like a starving man unleashed upon a feast; a feast of erotic lust.
I want to fuck her throat with my cock; hard & nasty.
I want her to gag on my cock.
I want her to spit on it, suck it, & lick it famishly.
I want her nails to dig into my back...my ass...scratch & draw blood.
I want my muscles to clench so tight from my fucking that I hurt for weeks.
I want to fuck her ass...hard.
I want to spank her ass...harder.
I want her to suck my balls like a Hoover vacuum.
I want her hands around my throat.
I want my hands around her throat.
I want to pull her hair back so hard it gives her whiplash.
I want her to breath heavily.
I want her to sweat profusely.
I want to tear the sheets off the bed.
I want to peel the paint off the walls.
I want to scream.
I want to grunt.
I want it to hurt....bad.

Please Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself

I'm a well spoken, college educated, mid - 40s clean cut black male. I'm 6' tall & around 170 - 200 lbs, depending. Lately, I've been working out like a fiend. I have a good job. I've never been married although I've come dangerously close. The last girlfriend burned me so badly that I've been gunshy with affairs of the heart. I figure I'm a bachelor for life.

Having said all that, I love sex. When it comes to sex, I'm pretty much uninhibited. In fact, I'd probably say I'm a dog. I never cheat on anyone who I'm seriously dating but if I'm single, I'm doing just about any woman who wants it. I don't care if they have boyfrineds or not. I admit I enjoy the fact that I'm making some other guy's woman cum. I realize I'm probably going to hell for that but I figure if they're willing to cheat on their men & I'm single, why not? You only go around once. Never live your life wondering what if.

I like all colors of women. I've had black women, white women, latino women, asian, & even persian. What can I say? I love variety. I've had women old enough to be my mother & young enough to be my daughter. I love womens bodies. I could never be gay because I think the male body is ugly. Am I some chocolate stud banging 1000 women? No. However, when an opportunity asises, I make the most of it.

I love pleasing women in bed. There isn't a single thing that I won't do in order to please my women sexually. Women wonder why I can last so long in bed. My answer is simple. I can't cum until I know my woman has been pleased. It's just something that I've trained myself for.


My favorite noise in the whole world is hearing a woman orgasming. I love the feel when they do. I love feeling their muscles tighten. I love the look on their faces as they gasp as I enter them. I love skin on skin. I love the soft moans getting louder & louder. I live for it. Everything I do is for the passion. I live for the pleasure of pleasing. 
 
 

 
I love my women fast, I admit. I just love women who know what they want & aren't afraid to go after it. No games, no gimmicks. I've got pretty good stamina. I love doing all nighters. I've never been one for quickies. I can go for about 12 hours with the right woman. Oh & these two photos? They're of me.

Perceptions

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     A comment from CeCe Savage (whose blogs are amazing, by the way) to my post about Barry White's Never Gonna Give You Up (When I saw that you were doing a Barry White song, I found myself surprised that this is the one you picked. But I do love this song!) got me thinking about how people get perceived sometimes.
     I love women; well, most things anyway. I love their curves. I love the way they smell, laugh, & look. Of all the women I've slept with, there's only one who I'm only no longer friends with. In fact, most of my friends are women. I just enjoy their company more.
     Having said all that, I don't go around having sex with every one of them. I turn down women & have been turned down more times than not. I was in love with one woman for over a decade & was completely monogamous. I'm just making up for lost time these days.
     Plus, I love a good love song. Sex should be about making a connection; at the very least a lustful one. A great long song goes a long way in making that happen.
     I'm more than a one trick pony. I have an iq of 150, which just means that I know a lot about nothing of importance. I blog about politics, science, entertainment, & other assorted things. I'm just basically a big geek with a cool job. Trust me when I say the job helps with the women more than my actual personality but oh, the pleasure I give. You have no idea. I've got so many layers to me that peeling them back. If you take the time, you might just enjoy yourself.
P.S. The Barry song people probably figured I'd put up there is coming eventually.

Oral Sex

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What is it about giving pleasure to another? When I go down on a woman, I enjoy knowing that I'm getting her off. I enjoy playing her body, seeing what works & what doesn't, & adjusting to her movements.




When I'm getting a blowjob, however, I enjoy the power that I have over my woman. I enjoy the fact that she's pleasing me. I grab her hair in a dominating fashion, sometimes fucking her mouth just to show my dominance. Power is so intoxicating sometimes.



I assume my women feel the same way when I'm going down on them & they grab my head & force me into their pussies, grinding hard against my lips & my tongue. Plus, when they're going down on me, I assume they enjoy the fact that their mouths are getting me off.



So, the question is this: when giving oral sex, do you enjoy the giving or the recieving more & who's more powerful: the giver or the reciever?

Marvin Gaye

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Since I'm a little too busy tonight to tell a sexy story, I thought I'd share one of my favorite sex songs. Check with anybody & I'm sure this song is on their top 5 sex songs. It's one of the ultimate panty droppers. You hear this song & you know what's next. God bless Marvin Gaye. RIP.

NYC: Columbiana - the Husband Calls

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"Hi honey" Columbiana said as she answered the phone. Her husband called her on her cell as she was riding me reverse cowgirl. We had been going at it for a few hours by then. As the phone rang, she hopped off & went to the other side of the room to answer.

I lay on the bed while she started talking with her husband. After a few minutes of chewing the fat with family matters, she came back over to the bed. While she talked about the usual familty matters, she started stroking & sucking my cock. I closed my eyes & enjoyed her lips sliding up & down my shaft, occassionally deepthroating my cock.
As her conversation continued, it got more sexual. She started sucking harder & harder, getting hotter as her husband started working her up. Her mouth worked me until I came inside her mouth. She swallowed it all & licked up what couldn't fit in her mouth the first time.
After that, she suggested to her husband that they have phone sex. She laid back on the bed & started telling her husband how much she wanted to fuck him. As she continued getting her husband hard, I went between her legs & started licking her clit & pussy. This freed up Columbiana to enjoy herself vocally without stirring too much suspition with her husband.
I licked her clit while she moaned & moaned. As I continued teasing her with my tongue, I stuck two fingers into her pussy. She started grinding her hips in rhythm to my fingers. All the while, she kept moaning & screaming how much she loved it. For all her husband knew, he was getting her off over the phone or maybe she was getting off on the both of us. After about ten minutes or so of this virtual tag team, she came.
After a few minutes, she cooed to her husband that she had to get some sleep. They said their goodbyes, she hung up the phone, & tossed it back to the other side of the room. As she slowly hopped back on top of me in the reverse cowgirl position, she said "now, where were we?".